Have you heard of the Playa Del Amor?
If you haven’t heard the name (it’s also known as the Hidden Beach of Mexico), you’ve probably at least seen the pictures. A crystal blue pool of water and a white sand beach, hidden inside a cave with the top sliced off to let the sunshine in.
It looks photoshopped but it is a real place, Playa Del Amor is on the Marieta Islands outside of Puerto Vallarta.
This photo, and a couple other’s like it, are extremely popular on Pinterest and circulate around Facebook too. I stumble across them all the time and half a dozen people emailed some variation to me when we announced we were headed to Mexico. Now that we live just an hour outside of Puerto Vallarta I also see the photo plastered across the various tour agencies around Sayulita.
Of course, we were always going to go, how could we not when it’s only a boat ride away? It’s not a cheap trip though: most boat tours out to the islands run between $75-$100. We decided to wait until Mike’s family came to visit since they were also excited to see the famous beach.
We booked with Sayulita Sailing Explorations, who were great. 1000 pesos a person (roughly $75) got us a full day out on the water including lunch, drinks, snorkeling and even fishing. They were professional, fun and really nice when I tripped on the deck and gashed my toe open literally five minutes after we left port. Their boat is small, maybe 30 people tops, compared to some of the bigger tour boats which seemed to pack in people by the hundreds (this probably should have been my first warning).
The boat ride across the Bay of Banderas was actually the highlight of the day. Deep blue sea, beers, sunshine and best of all: Whales. Humpback whales travel down to Mexico in the wintertime to breed (I thought about titling this post Whales Gone Wild but unfortunately it turns out I’m terrible at photographing whales). The whole trip was going fantastic until we got to the Marietas.
The islands are a series of scraggly volcanic rocks. In the first half of the twentieth century, the area was a military test-site. Government funded bombings and explosions created a series of jagged caves and holes in the island, including the famous beach, Playa Del Amor.
You swim through a partially submerged rock tunnel to reach the beach, a battle against the current determined to spit you back out. Once you make it in you find yourself in a warm clear tide pool with the beach in front of you and the sun streaming in above. “This is the wrong beach,” I told Mike.
It wasn’t. So what happened? Two things:
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Deceptive Photography
Compared to the photos the alcove looked too small, too dingy. The cut out at the top was bigger, less circular more sloppy. It was still kind of neat, but not majestic or magical. I didn’t feel like I was in a Pinterest moment at all.
As we floated in the bathtub temperature water, Mike explained to me how the photos had deceived me with the use of wide-angle lenses and creative angles. Even though the sun was shining and the water was brilliant, it was just impossible for the beach to look like it did in the picture.
Too Many People
Only minutes after we arrived a dozen other boats of visitors pulled up outside the mouth of the cave. As we sat there impossible amounts of people in bright orange safety vests began to pour into the cave until the entire area was packed with people taking pictures, sunbathing and clowning around.
Now, this is partially our fault: early January is one of the busiest times of year for Mexico tourism. Our friends who visited back in November had a much clearer view. And of course, those people had just as much right to be there as us, but the effect on this “hidden beach” was overwhelmingly negative.
The Lesson on Visiting Playa Del Amor
I learned back when I was wedding planning that nothing on Pinterest is as perfect as it seems. Everything is shot at the single most perfect moment then stylized, edited and framed in such a way you will never be able to reproduce. The current information out there only perpetuates this myth (probably because they are getting their information from press releases), like this Huffington Post article that calls the area one of the World’s Most Secluded Beaches.
This is not an undiscovered island cove, this is a major tourist attraction and should be treated as such. The boat ride was fantastic, the whales were amazing, but Playa Del Amor itself is fast on it’s way to becoming an exploited tourist trap. In many ways, it reminded me of Maya Beach in Thailand, another “hidden paradise” that isn’t.
So next time you let an idealized image dictate your vacation plans, think twice.
(Go Pro pictures by my talented husband, who wrote about our experiences at Playa Del Amor on Art of Adventuring.)
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That’s such a shame! Though I would still quite like to see it for myself to be honest, but at least my expectations will be more realistic now!
I think that is the important thing!
Holy crap…now that’s a major letdown. I enjoy a good beach as much as the next gal…but not enough to deal with intense crowding. Perhaps there are other, less-popular “undiscovered” options around. Or maybe that’s just a pipe dream.
Very interesting! It still looks pretty cool but I can totally see what you mean by false advertising. Thanks for sharing!
Happy travels 🙂
For someone who avoids crowds like a plague, I completely understand your disappointment. I can’t blame anyone, though. It seems like a beautiful spot, even on your photo, and the only thing I don’t like is that crowd.
That’s the thing right, just by being there WE were contributing to the crowd too. I think if I had to do it over I would just wait and go in the off season.
Shame, I know that feeling when the harsh reality of the effect of the tourism hits you.
Places only stay hidden when people keep them a secret and not talk about them. I often wonder, when i happen to find a place i think is special, whether i should resist from blogging about it and keeping it a secret for the sake of preserving it or sharing it with the world.
The boat ride does sound nice though, glad you at least managed to enjoy that!
It was more than worth it just to see the whales!
Oh that’s disappointing. So far friends/family who have been there have said positive things about it. I guess visiting during high season does affect the experience quite badly, especially in a place where space is reduced like that. I reckon the expectation of it being a secluded/secret beach is a bit unrealistic once the thing is everywhere on the internet, magazines, newspapers and what not though.
Yeah, our friends who went in November had a much different experience, so I think it depends on a lot on when you go.
What a bummer, but I felt the same way and actually wrote a post about Maya Bay and how it was a let down. Sometimes even when someone says it’s a let down, I want to see for myself! But I think at 75 bucks I’ll skip. I went out in a small fishing boat last time I was in Chalacatepec (just North of PV) and we saw loads of whales for free!
I found a lot of Thailand to be a bit like that. Not a single deserted, hidden beach in sight. You just have to learn to manage your expectations I guess. 🙂
Yeah, that’s why I wrote the article, not to tell people not to go, but to be prepared for the reality.
Wow, this is really interesting. Thanks for writing about this, as I was pretty bummed we skipped it while we were in Mexico. If you look at the photos on Pinterest, it seems to be the same 2 or 3 photos floating around. Oh well, part of the fun of a gorgeous secluded beach is the challenge of finding it yourself 🙂
awww this is really unfortunate. This beach has been on the bucketlist for years! I guess thats what happens when things hit the internet. its no longer a secret but a money maker.
Pretty much. How depressing.