Confession: There is a part of me that’s always a little reluctant to tell new people I meet about this site. I’m proud of what I do, but I get a little tired of the confused look on people’s faces when they try to figure out what exactly I mean by “travel blogger.”
The cute kiwi boys in my hostel dorm room gave me that look this weekend, although I barely cared because I was so excited to be in New York for the Travel Blog Exchange Conference (TBEX). This is an almost week long event where 250 travel bloggers from practically every corner of the earth converge to network, socialize and talk shop.
I LOVE meeting travel bloggers in person. It’s become a kind of hobby for me. It’s fun to compare notes on travel and blogging of course, but there is also a constant question in the back of my head, mainly who ARE these people? I know who I am and my motivations for the life I’m trying to cobble together, but what about the literally hundreds of others tending their own corners of the web?
So here is what I discovered this weekend about what travel bloggers are REALLY like:

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Youthful
Travel bloggers are an attractive bunch. Over and over I was shocked by how young and vibrant everyone looked, no matter what his or her physical age. We’re talking serious, Dorian Gray type supernatural youth here. From my under-age looking compatriots to the bloggers old enough to be my parents (or grand-parents) it would appear no skin cream on earth can match the glow of a joyful, well-lived life.
Friendly
Many of us at the conference had been chatting online for months, if not years, so the meeting had a weird first date meets high school reunion vibe. People greeted each other for the first time like long lost friends with hugs and joyful shrieks. Almost without exception people were just thrilled to meet and be with one another.

Party Animals
I’m actually amazed my liver survived the abuses of last weekend without packing up and quitting. When you combine a bunch of people who love adventure with the city that never sleeps and unlimited free drinks, things get kind of crazy. Parties ran dangerously late every single night as bloggers young and old socialized, bought each other shots, and even took on the mechanical bull (not yours truly though).
Evangelical
On Friday night I was invited to mingle with the organizers of Meet Plan Go, a really neat new event that aims to educate people about the benefits of career breaks. You will be hearing more about this in the future because I am actually speaking at the DC event, just a week before I leave for Japan. Travel bloggers know that they are kind of odd birds, but that doesn’t stop them from wanting to encourage travel as an accessible and appealing option for all kinds of people.
Dedicated
Only a handful of the participants were able to make a living as independent bloggers. A few more were employed for travel organizations. The majority of the people at the conference seemed to be dedicated hobbyists. No matter how they were making a living though, these were some hard working peeps, willing to put in countless hours of work for a mostly intangible pay off. It would appear that really nobody is getting rich blogging, at least not about travel. That’s okay though, because this is an industry about more than just money.

Multi-Talented
As the sessions progressed it was apparent to me that travel blogging can satisfy a lot of different skill sets. Some people are really motivated by the business challenges of the industry; others are more interested in the technical aspect, or design. There were people who love photography, storytellers with video cameras, podcasters and more. Personally, my passion is the writing and storytelling itself, something I feel even more excited about after this conference.
Passionate
So people were very different in age, skill set and level of establishment, but the one thread that wound through absolutely everything that happened at TBEX was a complete devotion to adventure and exploration. The pure joy and excitement that comes from being around other people who share your love is something that’s going to motivate me for quite awhile.
It’s hard to believe that I’ve been working at this for almost a year now. The people I’ve come in contact with via this little blog have been one of the greatest rewards by far. I’m not going to devolve into a sap fest, I will just say that I’ve seen the face of travel blogging, and I’m pretty happy to wear that label as my own.
I am fairly new at travel blogging, and I haven’t personally met other bloggers. But what I do love about travelers is the fact that they are not afraid to have fun. I love my friends at home, but it’s sometimes difficult to convince them to go out and do something different every once in awhile. When I studied abroad, the students I met were a lot more adventurous. I also went on a Habitat for Humanity trip and even the older folks went zip lining with us. In fact, they were the craziest ones! I love meeting other travelers because I know that when I wanna try new food, new hiking paths, new snowboarding mountains, surfing, or whatever else I wanna try, I know I won’t have a hard time convincing them. And all the adventures definitely keep us youthful.
Great post! You must have had a blast!
Yeah it’s a fun exciting community and I really love meeting other bloggers. Just full of life!
Bless you for your comment about us all being youthful – even those old enough to be your grandmother (I probably qualify). As for the slight discomfort over telling people you’re a “travel blogger,” may I make a suggestion? I went through this too and realize that I somehow didn’t value what I do enough. Yes I’m a blogger, but I work as hard as any other journalist. These days, when someone asks me what I do for a living, I tell them I’m a travel writer. Pure and simple, it’s what I do. The blog just happens to be the vehicle through which I deliver my content. No different that a magazine or a newspaper; probably better. The destruction of the inferiority complex over what we do has to start with us.
Thank you Barbara, I’ve been going with travel writer as well, I think it is more descriptive of what I actually do. I also hand out a lot of business cards- that seems to convince people I’m legitimate.
Very cool, Stephanie! Happy packing for your big trip 🙂
Thanks Alex!
Stephanie, I’m a first-time visitor to your site. I was reading Candice’s post about this event and clicked through to check out your site.
After reading both of your posts, I’m just about convinced that I need to attend this event next year. I blog as a hobby, but the networking would still be incredible.
I was somewhat nervous when I read your name- but thanks for stopping by! TBEX is definitely stellar for meeting interesting, like-minded people from around the world.
It was a lot of fun – definitely a good endorsement to go next year in Vancouver. Hopefully by then your liver will be up and running again!
I think I rebooted it with fourth of July celebrations yesterday. Next year!
Looks like a great time had by all! Wish I had the money to be there
Time to start saving for next year!
After I left my “real” job in Prague, I returned to my office after six months in Southeast Asia and everyone in my office remarked on how I looked five years younger. So, there is something to this travel and youth thing you’ve picked up on…
Honestly, someone should do a study on this. I bet the anti-aging effects of travel would get people out on the road faster than just about anything!
It is funny how people who’ve never met before share so many similarities while being so different. Meeting other travel bloggers while on the road has been really exciting & interesting.
Thanks for sharing the details, Steph! Sounds like it was a blast.
Adam
Bummed I missed out–I want to meet all of you in person!!!! Next TBEX (or if anyone wants to come to Nice…) drinks are on me 🙂
Dave and I were talking and you were high on our list of people we wished were there!